Monday, January 9, 2012

In love or in love with the thought of being in love?

Which one are you?

At the end of the day, everyone just wants someone so they don't have to die alone. It's typical to want to be in love but when you find that special someone are you just happy you're with someone or are you happy that that someone is your special someone?

It's just like when you see all your friend happy and full of bliss. And you're always the one needing to find a last minute date for a dinner party. Or the one in the group who declines the +1 invite because you don't have a +1. And then to rush it all, you decide that the next person you're with is the one you'll be with for the rest of your life. Despite the fact that you guys have nothing in common. Or that you both argue nonstop because it's absolutely impossible for you to agree. And where's that bliss all of your friends had when your were the odd ball sitting around watching them snuggle? Is the thought of being in love more important than personal happiness?

I think love is unexplainable. When you have it, you just know. And that person is perfect even though they're full of flaws. And nothing is too big to tear you guys apart. With that person, it really does feel like it's only you two in it and the sky is the limit. You're the dynamic duo in this crazy thing we call life and no one can tell you otherwise.

With true love, that 7 year itch of marriage is just a minor tick. And that 20 year scuffle is but a mere scratch. The thought of being in love was far from your mind when you met them but somehow you found love and at this point you never want to let it go. It's a beautiful thing. Everyone should get a chance to feel it. Because it's the closest we have to magic.

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