Logically speaking, nobody likes being put in the friend zone. You finally put yourself out there and tell the person you like that you would like to hang out sometime. They might say yes but in a totally platonic way which could be miserable for you. They never really gave you a shot to be just more than a friend.
I asked a couple of guys what they think about girls putting them in the "friend" zone. They say that we have this type of guy in our heads and if a guy approaches us and he's not even close to that guy in our mind, we see him as a friend. We say things like "Aw, you're a great friend" or "You're like a brother to me" and that's a big sign to show that you have just entered the "friend" zone.
But what if it's other elements? What if it's a confidence thing like we don't think we're good enough for you or that you don't see us as datable? What if we put you in the "friend" zone before you put us in your "friend" zone. Dating means taking a risk and most of us are not willing to risk our hearts for something like this. So we wait until we find something close to perfect. Is the "friend zone even worth all that? Maybe we just need to grow some balls and approach that guy that makes us weak in the knees. Or develop a softer heart give that guy a chance because he did build up the nerves to ask us out. Why not see how it goes?
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